It really doesn’t matter to me…what you believe…

Everyone is on their own journey….not matter what type of parent…

You’re a parent of a NT kiddo…your struggles are your own…you wanna be green and clean? I applaud you! Am I doing the same? Nope…it’s not in my cards..I’m scrambling for any food my kid will eat…chicken nugget or kale? I don’t care..just eat something….anything…

But you keep up your good fight..I applaud you…it really doesn’t matter to me…what you believe…..

I’m fighting my kiddos struggle…he is as different as any other kid..none of them are the same…. None of us are the same..we are all human..for God’s sake…we are…..

You can’t compare yourself, your kid, your family to anyone else….never.. Ever…….

Here lies the crux….do we crucify others different from us? Ourselves…do we do it because we feel inadequate? Not up to par? Or are we jealous?

Good lawd..I have my own share of jealousy…but I’ll be damned…if it keeps me from respecting someone else…their journey..their beliefs …let it be…go forth and prosper..my motto…..

Alicia Silvestone..yeah..the Clueless girl…she’s vegan..a newbie momma..wrote a book..started a website for vegan..clean living.. The kind mama..I think she calls it….if she wants to be kind and clean and works for her..so be it……I applaud her….

You don’t vaccinate..you think it damaged your child..I get it…I vaccinated mine..that’s my journey..not yours..I applaud you for doing what you think is best for your baby….

It really doesn’t matter to me what you believe…that’s you and yours ..not mine ..I applaud you..for sticking up for what you believe ….

Breast feeding is your thing..or not…it’s up to you…I breast fed neither of my kids..one NT genius…the other ASD genius…. Your journey ..my journey..makes no difference…

It goes deeper then this post..my diary.,my thoughts ….

I jaunt wish there was more understanding for everyone…and acceptance…that is the most important part…

Disclaimer: I write like a diary..I am NOT a blogger..these are my pieced together thoughts..if you get it..great! If not..move on!

Lori
Mother to Bob and Bob

Everybody hurts..sometimes…everybody needs to whine…sometimes…

I am woman, a mother, an advocate….. I don’t have time for pity..or hurt ..I have things to do…I have a child that depends on me….depends on me….depends on me having my shit together…

Well, guess what..I’m human..I’ve struggled this week…I’ve been in a funk….

A lowly self pity funk….it doesn’t solve or help anyone or anything….

What does help? Picking yourself up and standing up…..stop saying it’s ok…when it’s not…stop saying I’m good..when you’re not..be honest..be real…for you..for your kid……..mostly for your kid

Pick up your big girl panties and move on….

Easier said then done…I know..I’ve been there..I am there

But the world still turns…and I’d rather struggle… And feel alive then the alternative

My whine is over…for,now at least…everyone hurts..we do..and we will survive…

Love,
Lori
Bob’s momma